Years ago, choosing a restaurant usually started with one question: “Where is the trendiest place right now?” Someone would send a photo, someone else would check the menu, and somehow we would end up somewhere because everyone wanted to try the newest thing.
After 30, the questions became different.
“Can we actually talk there?”
“Is parking easy?”
“Do they have something everyone will enjoy?”
At first, I found it funny. I thought my friends were becoming less adventurous. But after a few more dinners, I realised I was doing the same thing.
We were not losing our curiosity. We were learning what made a meal worth sharing.
I remember visiting restaurants where the food was only part of the reason we stayed longer. Places like a good zi char table, a familiar Japanese restaurant, or a family-style dining room where plates kept arriving in the middle. The best moments were rarely about ordering the most impressive dish. They came from noticing that everyone had something they liked.
That is something I appreciate more now. A good restaurant is not always the one that gives us the most to talk about. Sometimes it is the one that lets us enjoy talking to each other.
Singapore makes this easy to notice. Our food culture has always been built around gathering, whether it is sharing dishes at a hawker centre or passing plates around a restaurant table.
Maybe growing older has simply changed what we look for.
We still want good food. We just started paying attention to everything that comes with it.
The places we return to often reveal what we value most.
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